Picking out a vibrator for the first time does not have to be intimidating. If you have not used a sex toy yet, now is the time to get started. Beyond taking your orgasm to new heights, the right sex toy can help you learn so much about what you and your partner really want in bed. Sex toys can add a spark of something new and they can also help a couple explore each other’s bodies and find new erogenous zones. Using a vibrator also helps some people communicate about sex more openly with their partner. They are more likely to talk about what they like in terms of speed, pressure, rhythm, angle, and position when using a vibrator, and this communication extends into other areas of their sex life and relationship. But buying your first sex toy can feel like a daunting task. Do you go for something internal or external? A partner or solo toy? Whatever you do, it is important to make sure you choose something you are comfortable with and do not feel intimidated by. Look for a toy that provides some clitoral stimulation, as most women have an easier time reaching orgasm this way. However, everyone’s needs, and preferences are different, which is why it can be helpful to explore a variety of options (with lube in hand). Here, the best sex toys you can try if you are a total beginner— guaranteed they will turn you into a pro in no time.
Magic Wand Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator.
If you prefer to go with a classic toy, this is it. The original Magic Wand Massager has been a bestseller for years and raved about for its strong stimulation—many women swear by it. This cordless, rechargeable version is basic with four speeds and vibration patterns but is just as powerful as the original. Bonus: It can double as a neck and back massager.
Wanachi Mini Massager
Let us be real, vibrators can get super pricey. When you are first starting out it is all about experimentation, so if you do not want to dish out the extra dollars, go for something more affordable to figure out what feels the best to you. The Wanachi Mini vibrator is a good place to start. It is waterproof, bendable, and offers multiple speeds.
Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator
On the flip side, you also get what you pay for. Spending a little more on a toy usually means you are getting a product that is of a higher quality and will last longer. If you want penetration and clitoral stimulation at the same time, a rabbit vibrator is a good option. This one is soft, quiet, waterproof, has 15 vibration modes, and offers internal & external stimulation.
Dream Bullet Vibrator
Bullet vibrators are often a good choice for beginners because they are small with a decent vibrating power. This nifty little toy has a tapered tip, so you can directly target different areas of your clitoris and vulva—packing a powerful punch when it comes to your orgasm.
Has a suction cup-like head that stimulates your clitoris using air technology with adjustable intensity. It ends up creating a unique sensation like oral sex with a tongue. No partner needed! Place the toy near or around the head of your clitoris, or you can position it all around the vulva & give the fourchette the thin fold of skin at the back of your vulva love.
Discreet Sex Toy
It is not a bad idea to start with something small if shopping for a sex toy feels overwhelming. Its computer mouse-like shape is pretty much as innocent-looking as they come, and it has 10 vibration modes with a quiet motor to keep the intimidation factor low. Bonus: You can take it in the shower since it is waterproof.
Realistic Sex Toy
Silicone Suction Cup
If it is penetration, you are after, a silicone dildo is a good choice. Silicone feels like skin, so you get a more realistic experience. Dildos are often less intimidating to sex toy newbies compared to some of the kinkier options. This one is seven inches long, warms up and retains body heat, shaped to follow natural curves, and is easily cleaned.